5 Things to Remember on Your Wedding Day

Wedding, Wedding Tips

Your wedding day is a culmination of love, planning, and dreams coming true. Amidst the excitement and anticipation, it’s easy to overlook some essential details. To ensure your special day goes off without a hitch, here are five things to remember on your wedding day that will help you make the most of your day.

1. Cake Knife and Cakeware for Cake Cutting

The moment you and your partner cut the wedding cake is a cherished tradition. However, it’s easy to forget the cake knife and cakeware in the midst of all the excitement. Make sure you have a beautifully crafted cake knife and server set ready for this momentous occasion. So often there is no knife for the couple and we have to track one down from the caterer. Cutting a cake with a butterknife is harder than you think.

My favorite cake set!

2. Try on Wedding Day Attire Before the Big Day

You’ve spent months choosing the perfect wedding attire, but don’t assume it’s ready to wear straight from the store or tailor. It’s essential to try on your wedding outfit a few days before the wedding to ensure everything fits perfectly and there are no unexpected issues like loose buttons or torn hems. This will give you time to address any last-minute alterations and guarantee that you look and feel your best on your wedding day. This is also a good time to try bustling your dress one last time before the wedding. It’s good to have a recording of the bustle as well so that multiple people can help if needed.

3. Take Care of Yourself on the Wedding Day

The whirlwind of your wedding day can be physically and emotionally draining. It’s crucial to prioritize self-care. Start your day with a nutritious meal and stay hydrated. Consider a light, balanced breakfast that won’t make you feel too full or bloated. Remember to take short breaks throughout the day to rest and recharge. Don’t let the stress of the day take away from your enjoyment.

4. Write Your Vows and Have Copies Ready

If you’re writing your own vows, don’t wait until the last minute. Spend time crafting heartfelt promises to your partner. Once you’ve written your vows, ensure you have a hard copy and a digital or cloud-based backup. Technology can be unreliable, and having a physical copy can be a lifesaver if something goes wrong with your electronic device. This ensures that your vows are safe and ready when it’s time to say “I do.”

5. Wedding Detail Bag

A wedding detail bag is a lifesaver for keeping essential items organized and accessible on your wedding day. Some items to include in your wedding detail bag are a handkerchief, a spare pair of comfortable shoes, your invitation suite, wedding rings, your favorite perfume or cologne, jewelry, a watch, and cufflinks if you’re wearing them. Having these items in one place makes it easy to grab when I arrive to photograph your wedding.

Some items in your detail bag may be:

•Outfit – Dress



•Invitation Suite





•Jewelry ( Necklace, earrings, bracelets)


•Tie – Bowtie





•Pocket Square

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6. Take a breath and savor the moment.

Amidst all the planning, it’s easy to get caught up in the details and forget the most important thing – the reason you’re celebrating in the first place: your love for each other. Take a deep breath, pause, and savor the moments. Your wedding day will pass by in a blur, so make a conscious effort to be present. Spend quality time with your partner, share a private moment together, and soak in the love and happiness that surrounds you. Remember, it’s not just about the perfect cake or flawless decor; it’s about the beautiful journey you’re embarking on together.

In conclusion, your wedding day is a day to celebrate your love and commitment to your partner. While there are many details to manage, keeping these five things in mind will help ensure a smoother and more enjoyable experience. From the cake-cutting to taking care of yourself, having the right mindset and support will make your wedding day a truly unforgettable occasion. Cherish every moment, and may your marriage be as sweet as the cake you’ll share.

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I specialize in inclusive wedding photography for all. I went from being engayged to being a Fresno Wedding Photographer when I couldn't find any photographers locally who held my same values.  

Fueled by equal parts coffee and passion,  I believe your story, your love, is beautiful and I can't wait to capture it in images you will treasure for years to come. I believe in real moments and genuine connection. In the kinds of images that remind you of the joy that can be found in the simplest of moments together. 

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